![]() There comes a point where you just have to decide not to be of any further assistance. ![]() GTFO.Ģ) Come On Baby Finish What You Started: I know someone like your sister. Boundary issues like that you don't fark around with. Had that been my husband and my child, well, hubby would have been the next one over the bannister.ġ) With Those Tender Words I Spoke, I Was Only Kidding. She came completely unglued, as would any normal person. I remember seeing one where a guy dressed an appropriately sized doll in the same clothes as their toddler and tricked his wife into thinking it was the kid that fell over the bannister from the 2nd story onto the hard floor below. I was in an abusive marriage and those videos are complete horrorshows. Guys setting up their girlfriends with some really mean joke, or pretending to lose control of the car, or be having an affair, or he says he's breaking up with her, and then-SURPRISE!-he'd break out the ring. It was the meanest stuff I could think of, in fact I would never think of treating someone else that way, even if I hated them. I remember when Fark used to run those "check out these hilarious prank videos" articles sometimes. When he laughs at the funny prank, look him square in the eyes and say "Ha! The joke is that the papers are real. I have lost my husband and my best friend and I am not sure I will ever fully recover from the heartache you have caused me.Cryinoutloud: wage0048: Have him served with divorce papers. You do say you are sorry, but that really is an empty word for the immense pain that you have caused me and our children. I am devastated that you decided that our relationship was over and was going to end in such a horrible way, and that you made that awful, emotionless woman part of our marriage. We had been together 28 years and that's a lot of memories to throw away.Įverything is so hurtful. You have told me that you hadn't loved me properly for quite some time, which I am extremely upset about as you never brought up the problems in our relationship so that we could have tried to work them out. You do not show any remorse or regret for what you have done, nor do you show any emotions or feelings towards me or my wellbeing – you act as if nothing has happened and not once have you cried. Unfortunately, I will never know whether you are still seeing her, as you can just do as you please now because you are no longer with me. I am not sure that I believe you after so many lies for so long. The woman is a work colleague and you obviously still see her every day, even though you have said you are no longer "seeing" her. And all that time you were lying to me about who you were seeing and what you were doing. ![]() You took her for a night in a hotel the day after Valentine's day, which was also a couple of days before her birthday. ![]() You took her away to several concerts, including the V festival. You bought her flowers, a photographic memory book with pictures of you together and a necklace for her birthday. You said you had purchased several bottles of wine every time you met her, as you put it, to help you "do the deed" as it was "just drunken sex". You had also spent some of our family money on this woman and taken her away for weekends. You were my world – my friend, my only lover – and you had completely betrayed and hurt me to a degree beyond my comprehension.Īfter a week or so, you twisted the knife yet again and admitted the affair had really been going on for two years. Five minutes before we were due to go in for our session, you broke the devastating news that you had indeed been having an affair – for 18 months. You arranged for me to go to a Relate appointment with you the very next day, to which I'd agreed. Although the familiarity in the tone of those texts did not ring true for just a one-night stand, when I asked you, yet again you reassured me. Originally, when I confronted you about the texts on that awful day, you were adamant it had only been a one-night stand.
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